Why Does Everyone Want To Be A Food Addict?
By: Warren Huberman, Ph.D.
In my work, I find that one of the most common explanations people give for their struggle with diets and with obesity is âIâm a food addict.â When asked what this means, most people explain that their inability to maintain the weight lost from diets and the fact that most or all of the weight eventually returns is proof of their âfood addiction.â Additional evidence they cite is that their eating is âall or nothing,â that they can completely avoid so-called âforbidden foodsâ or binge on them with regularity, but nothing in between.
This kind of reasoning is called reasoning from the converse. This is where you have a conclusion or an end state and you then go backwards to explain the cause and use the existence of the end state as proof of the cause. This invariably leads to circular logic that goes nowhere. Hereâs how it works: âI am a food addict which explains why I cannot moderate my intake of certain foods, and my inability to moderate my intake of certain foods proves that I am addicted to them and am therefore an addict.â But does it? There is actually another, more accurate explanation.
There are three facts that must be considered:
1) 95% of people will regain most or all of the weight they have lost on a diet within five years. 2) Many, if not most diets teach avoidance of âforbidden foods,â not moderate consumption of them. 3) Very few diets or weight loss regimens are successfully maintained indefinitely.
These facts are very important to our discussion because they are true for almost EVERYONE who has tried to lose a significant amount of weight. Therefore, either everyone who has failed to keep their weight off following a diet or eventually resorts to eating âforbidden foodsâ is a âfood addictâ or there are other explanations for this phenomenon.
But why is it that so many of the people I meet are eager to call themselves âfood addicts?â Most people are uncomfortable acknowledging that they are addicted to alcohol or illicit substances such as cocaine or heroin, so why is being a so-called âfood addictâ easier to acknowledge? I believe it is because the label âfood addictâ removes the feelings of guilt and shame that so many people experience when they regain weight after all of the work they expended in losing it. It is absolutely heartbreaking to lose the weight, have people notice that youâre thinner and then a year later youâve regained the weight and everyone knows it. It would be very tempting to blame this on a disease called âaddiction.â âItâs not my fault that I regained the weight and am obese againâŠIâm a food addict.â I can certainly understand the desire to be free from responsibility from your obesity or weight regain; however, itâs not necessary to fall back on the explanation that you are a âfood addict.â Perhaps if we looked at the facts about weight loss, there would be no need for all of the guilt and shame and the resulting need to explain it away by calling it an addiction.
Review the facts that I mentioned earlier. The overwhelming majority of people regain the weight they have lost from a diet, very few diets teach moderate eating of âforbidden foodsâ (so youâre left with only knowing how to eat them or not eat them), and most people find it very difficult if not impossible to stay on a regimen of controlled eating for extended periods of time. These are the problems faced by almost all human beings who try to lose weight, not just those who are âfood addicts!â So what is the explanation when someone actually succeeds in losing weight and keeping it off? Great questionâŠand the answer is not that these rare souls are not âfood addictsâ or that they are ârecovered food addicts.â
The National Weight Control Registry (NWCR) is an organization that keeps tracks of âsuccessful weight losersâ who have lost 30 pounds or more and have kept it off for at least one year. What should immediately catch your eye is that âsuccessâ is defined as losing 30 pounds and keeping it off for one year. So if losing 30 pounds and keeping it off for one year is considered âsuccessful,â if youâre morbidly obese and manage to lose 100 pounds and keep that off for several years that would be incredibly successful! Extensive research has been done on these folks over the years and the most recent study has discovered 7 common habits which most of the 6,000 people studied have in common. 6,000 participants in a study is a strong number of people and one where the conclusions drawn are likely very robust.
Interestingly, the researchers noted that 90% of the folks in this study who finally lost the weight and kept if off had a previous history of losing weight and putting it back on. Therefore, the overwhelming majority of people were not successful on their first try. The seven habits of successful âlosersâ were: 1. Engaging in 200+ minutes of exercise of moderate intensity per week, 2. Limiting TV watching to less than 10 hours per week, 3. Eating a low-calorie, low-fat diet with less than 30% of calories from fat, 4. Consistency â relatively little food variety and the same daily pattern of eating, 5. Eating breakfast, 6. Avoiding emotional eating and binging and limiting consumption of fast food to less than once weekly and, 7. Monitoring yourself such as documenting calories and/or fat. Notice that every one of the seven habits is just thatâŠa pattern of behavior. There is no mention of the characteristics of the 6000 people. Itâs not about who they are, but rather what they did and continue to do.
So what do we make of this âfood addiction?â Neuroscience is recognizing the difficulty human beings have in resisting certain foods that we can call âengineered foodsâ that are high in sugar, salt and other additives. These foods are designed by fast-food companies and food manufacturers to be irresistible because they cause certain reactions in the brain that make it hard for us to say no. But these are challenges for us all. In fact, mass consumption of these âengineered foodsâ is likely one of the great contributors to the obesity epidemic. They explain why we, as a society, are getting fatter. Perhaps we will discover that some individuals (for neurological or other reasons) have a more difficult time resisting these âengineered foodsâ enriched with sugar, salt and other additives, and that these individuals are the true âfood addicts.â But what would knowing that you are one of these individuals change? What would a âfood addictâ do differently to lose weight and keep it off?
The addiction model says that the addict should completely abstain from using the substance or drug. Should âfood addictsâ avoid all food (impossible) or just the ones they are âaddictedâ to? And how would we know which ones those would be? The most commonly cited addictive âsubstanceâ in food is sugar, but weâre not at all certain. There is also another problem. Much of the research on binge eating indicates that designating certain foods as completely âforbiddenâ and avoiding them results in feelings of deprivation and their becoming even more desirable which often results in binging on them when you finally give into temptation.
Perhaps someday there will be treatments for true âfood addictsâ if âfood addictionâ actually exists. What is more likely however; is that these folks will simply have to work even harder than most of us to stick to the seven habits that are detailed above. In the meantime, consider giving up the label of âfood addictâ and instead, recognize that losing weight and keeping it off is a tremendous challenge, but an achievable one. If youâre thinking of beginning to address your own personal âbattle of the bulgeâ either for the first time or the twentieth time, or if youâre feeling hopeless and thinking there is no point in even trying, fear notâŠmost successful losers apparently made several unsuccessful attempts before they finally got it right. And if you are thinking of starting yet againâŠthe seven habits detailed above are a great blueprint to follow.
Dr. Huberman is a Clinical Psychologist with a practice in cognitive-behavior therapy in New York City. He is a Clinical Instructor in the Department of Psychiatry at the NYU School of Medicine. He is an Affiliate Psychologist at the NYU Langone Medical Center and NSLIJ-Lenox Hill Hospital. Dr. Huberman has been a consulting psychologist to the NYU/Langone Weight Management Program since 2000. Dr. Huberman is the author of the New Book Through Thick & Thin: The Emotional Journey of Weight Loss Surgery. For more information, visit warrenhuberman.com.
